International Etiquette

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

I was in the library yesterday picking up my weekly round up of books when I stumbled upon a book called, 'Behave Yourself! The Essential Guide to International Etiquette'. I quickly flipped though it and knew I had to check it out. It lists 45 major countries and what each of their individual customs and traditions are for greetings, dress, eating & drinking and conversation.

As someone who loves to travel, I thought this book would be handy for myself and my world-traveler hubby and also entertaining and informative for you too!

Interesting Facts:

~Italy~


  • In Italy, chewing gum is considered vulgar however smoking is widespread, even in nonsmoking sections in restaurants.


  • When answering the phone, say "Pronto", which means "ready", not "Buon giorno."


  • Sitting down for coffee is much more expensive than standing at the bar, which is why you will often see a crowd of Italians crowded at the bar drinking espresso.


  • It is polite to stay at the table until the meal is finished, rather than visiting the bathroom during the meal.

~France~



  • Bread and bread sticks are an accompaniment to the main meal, so don't start nibbling until the food arrives!


  • Don't use the OK sign, it means 'zero' in France.


  • Good posture is very important and a sign of class. Keep your hands out of your pockets, don't slouch or chew gum.


  • Only use first names when invited. It is customary to address your elders with Monsieur or Madame.


~Turkey~




  • It is normal for people of the same sex to walk hand in hand as a sign of friendship.


  • Carry Identification with you at all times-it is required by law.


  • Don't cross your arms while facing someone, it is considered rude.


  • Shaking your head means "I don't understand"; it doesn't mean no. To say 'NO', raise your eyebrows and make a "tsk' sound, or tilt your head backward slightly. Nod to say yes.


  • On public transportation, women should not sit next to male strangers.


~Greece~




  • The drinking age in Greece is 16.


  • In many restaurants you are allowed (and even encouraged) to visit the kitchen to see how the food id being prepared and to decide what you would like to order.


  • Raising an open palm at face level is insulting. The OK sign is considered a rude gesture with obscene connotations.


  • When you are invited to a Greek home, make a big fuss over the children. Greece is a very child-oriented culture, so don't exclude them when talking to adults.


  • In a Greek home, expect to be offered many seconds and thirds at meals. Eating well is a compliment to your hosts. If you are dining out, your host will usually pay the whole bill.
I thought I'd share with you the last four countries in Europe that I recently visited. They were all so lovely. The photo at the top of this post was taken on our trip in Santorini, Greece which in my opinion is heavenly!